tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5134587384461322618.post6457600631507588125..comments2008-03-17T01:30:04.678-07:00Comments on cheetos with chopsticks: a non-updatepea in a podhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01631621559033502421noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5134587384461322618.post-20653664338875334412007-06-06T10:55:00.000-07:002007-06-06T10:55:00.000-07:00BTW-I was totally thinking Miu too. I remember ge...BTW-<BR/>I was totally thinking Miu too. I remember getting her baby and rocking him all day because she was in her room with the shades shut and had not been held for 18 hours. I remember looking at him and knowing, KNOWING that he was never going to recover from having her as mother and being neglected. It made my whole body and being ache. Dealing with all of this can wound you at such a basic human level. Please take care of yourself.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07877847615994951117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5134587384461322618.post-66407115719542682792007-06-06T10:52:00.000-07:002007-06-06T10:52:00.000-07:00All reportable in my book:Recognizing that he’s be...All reportable in my book:<BR/>Recognizing that he’s being neglected and probably harmed and DOING SOMETHING ABOUT IT. For example, the baby should be monitored constantly by staff. I know it’s “not our job,” but not if a baby is at such serious risk. D. is not feeding him, she says, because she doesn’t want him to be obese (he is so hungry; he couldn’t get enough to eat all night). She is propping bottles and leaving the room, he’s “slipped” and gone underwater in the baby bath, he has sustained head trauma from something (“I dropped a toy on his head”). Etc. etc. etc. We all have a million and one “red flag” moments with her but we can’t seem to combine them effectively.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07877847615994951117noreply@blogger.com